Agreeing to Disagree
I have yet to meet anyone in my life that I agree with 100%. Even my husband and I, we agree about 96% of the time, we just have to laugh at the 4% we don't exactly see eye to eye on. But, I have noticed, on those rare occasions where we strongly disagree that once we have both stated our position that it turns out that both of us are actually right! Two things that seemed to oppose each other when put together form the whole of the truth. It is the beauty of the paradox... 1+1=2 right? Well, actually a new understanding leads us to believe 1+1=3! When we include his opinion and my opinion we actually give birth to a new, more complete understanding of the truth as a whole.
The only thing we have to make sure of is that we are not “made of gunpowder and wicks”. If you are a fuse just waiting to “go off” then surely you will attract to you the “spark”. The simple realization of this is the way to “defuse” any situation. Then it is up to us to factor this into the equation... denying it only makes it harder to restore balance. Accepting the feelings of anger, resentment and fear (which are usually the basis of all disagreements) and including them is the fastest and easiest way to make harmony.
The Duality of “Right and Wrong”
We have a tendency to see things in black and white, good and bad... right and wrong. It is a viewpoint that keeps us on a perpetual teeter-totter. No matter what position we take, right or left, we will always be “on a ride”. The only way to stop the sickening motion of the ups-and -downs is to take a few steps to the middle. From this perspective, the movement seems to stop... And we have neutral perspective, observing as both sides continue their rise and fall while no longer being affected by motion-sickness.
We do not need to have a battle, and at the same time we do not need to deny how we feel. All is welcome in inclusive harmonic balance!
Polarities are a natural way of Life. When we look at male and female polarities, it is when we include them both that we end up with a complete whole. It is the balance!
However, we also live in a world of illusory duality... How do we know where the illusions lie? When we apply this concept to divisive issues, conflicting emotions or dueling thoughts we only have to ask one question to rebalance the equation. “Where is the Love?” Once you factor in all things, you can then start to factor out all that does not support Love. The only thing that can stand the scrutiny of Love, are really the only things that truly exist... Love and Life itself. Everything else is illusion.
Harmonic Inclusion in Brainwaves
We have 5 different wavelengths or frequencies of brainwaves. Alpha, Beta, Delta, Gamma and Theta. Wow! Five (pent) seems to be a magic number! We also have 5 fingers, 5 toes and when we look at Di Vinci's art we can see we were truly constructed with this geometry in mind. It is no mistake! Pent is the basic geometric structure that you will find in all Life, it the pattern that Life itself takes to become self-organizing! It is the basis for all neg-entropic forces, consciousness and perception. It is the spin path of the Golden Mean Spiral. No wonder the pentagram has been so harshly judged and suppressed! And it is the way to perfect infinite sharing among waves... In other words it is how we maintain our connection to Source and all Life! It is harmonic inclusiveness!
It does not mean we have to act on every thought. Our simple awareness and inclusion of them and neither suppressing or fueling them contributes to a state of happiness, bliss and peak perception. It stops the inner struggle of duality. With time, practice and awareness this can be a normal state of mind even while not meditating... Life itself becomes a meditation.
All inclusive harmony also means that we can start being aware of the secrets we keep and how this affects not only ourselves, but the whole to which we are always connected. When we think “shareable” thoughts it not only benefits yourself, but all Life. Be in awareness of the secrets that you hold (especially from yourself) and let them flow freely back to the whole. This doesn't mean you have to stand up shout your deepest, darkest secrets to world on a soapbox... just acknowledge and release them from a state of beingness in the Heart.
The Heart works on the same principal as brainwaves. The more inclusive we become, the better our hearts work. Not only does this apply to the spiritual and emotional level, it has a deep impact on the physical as well. An all inclusive heart, will start to implode when frequencies are present in Golden Mean Ratio, which among other things creates an immune system.
the perfect sharing
the perfect compassion and love,
the perfect fractal,
the perfect grail:
An implosive heart is also the trigger for DNA to activate and start to braid, since they are fractally connected. This can also be known as kundalini, and the process of reintegrating our 12 strand DNA. Which unlocks our skills to lucid dream, “travel” and carry memory through death.
Empathy and compassion are the greatest tools of the heart. When we include others' feelings into our hearts like they were our own, this also causes implosion. It is a very high ambition to realize this while in an argumentative frame of mind. If we were to recognize another person's feelings and points of contention as valid, we not only gain a larger perspective, we also strengthen our connection to Source. Or at least we can agree to disagree and stop making each other “wrong” which gets us nowhere fast.
Your happiness, and bliss is the pathway to unlocking all the hidden potentials that are your birthright. Staying in a “wrong or right” state of mind and heart only makes the journey to self-discovery longer and more taxing. Including it all in a perfect state of Love, acceptance and harmonic balance will not only quicken the pace, but make the journey itself more enjoyable.