If we are living lives of blame, finger-pointing and hatred then they have already beaten us. They will have succeeded in lowering our vibration resulting in a miserable existence. In the end it just makes us unhappy... Which is right where they want us. With one primal scream of righteous indignation we can assert our choice to no longer permission these betrayals and at the same time clear the way for a higher understanding.
This is an opportunity to know your own creative power. And a chance to see how you can change the world from the inside-out. For when we accept the responsibility for our own creation, and the reflections that we are receiving from the world around us, it is also admitting we have the power to change it!
One big awakening moment for me came as a young adult. I found myself in an abusive relationship. I broke it off finally but was left with a lot of blame, shame and feeling of being a victim. It was when I realized my own part in permissioning and creating the situation that I started the process of forgiving not only him, but myself. Taking responsibility for my own creation (which is the only thing I have control of) was one of the most empowering thing I had ever done. Not to excuse bad behavior... but I am grateful to have learned that I have the ability to create a life of magic or a living hell... and I choose magic.
“Forgive them, for they know not what they do...”
We have all caused others harm on purpose or unintentionally (in this life and in past lives) and no one is without the need to be forgiven. We can empathize with those we feel have committed grievous crimes against us and give them the kind of forgiveness and understanding we would wish for ourselves. Recognizing that we all have the desire deep down to be unconditionally loved. There are times I myself have been forgiven, even though I may not have “deserved” it. It was the best gift I ever received!
The electromagnetic field of the heart becomes implosive when we feel what is “outside” (another person's feelings) like it were “inside” of us. It is the electrical definition of compassion and empathy. An implosive heart is our access to zero-point and is our connection to all Life and directly to Source. By trapping ourselves in blame, we not only make ourselves miserable, but are actually cutting ourselves off from Love, Life and Source itself! It is when we inclusively Love and Accept all that we can feel just how much we are unconditionally loved by Source.